{"id":81,"date":"2021-06-01T14:42:37","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T14:42:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/?p=81"},"modified":"2024-09-03T13:44:23","modified_gmt":"2024-09-03T13:44:23","slug":"post-date-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/post-date-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Post-Date Tips (Questions to Ask Yourself)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>We gathered some of the best tips out there for everyone mulling over a recent date. Take a look, and see what speaks to you. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>After a bad date, make sure to separate the person you\u2019re dating from the date itself. Could it be you were too cold\/tired\/uncomfortable (or any other external factor) that made it a bad date, and it had nothing to do with the person you dated?\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Best advice I got! When I was dating someone a few times there was nothing wrong but my gut told me it was not going anywhere. A cousin of mine told me &#8220;Yeah, everyone says keep to go out because he&#8217;ll grow on you but\u2026.. mold also grows on bread.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>For the beginning of a relationship, the main question to ask yourself  is \u201cDo you like him\/her?\u201d Other decisions come later.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>After each date, take time to reflect on how it went and compare it to what you are looking for.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>If time goes by quickly during the date, it\u2019s a good sign. If you had a good time, it\u2019s also a good sign.<br>If doubting, think: Would I feel comfortable walking together with them in the street? Would I want them to be a parent to my children? Are they someone I look up to? A role model? Will I be proud for them to be my spouse?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Look at a list of positive qualities and think how many of them they have.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Remember: A bad date isn\u2019t always a dead end- your date might have a friend they think is a better fit for you. It\u2019s happened!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We gathered some of the best tips out there for everyone mulling over a recent date. Take a look, and see what speaks to you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":152,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":327,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions\/327"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}